Habits
hab?it (h?b'ĭt)

1. A recurrent, often unconscious pattern of behavior that is acquired through frequent repetition.

2. An established disposition of the mind or character.



Funny thing about habits, often times we don't realize we've formed them. For a few weeks, I've been under doctor's orders to avoid singing while my throat heals up from some problems I've been having. I've been amazed at how many times I've found myself singing anyway. In the shower, in the car, even watching tv when a catchy commercial comes on. Medical issues aside, it's not a bad habit to have. It brings me a lot of joy and (I hope) other people enjoy listening to me when I perform.

Other habits can be far less desirable. Somewhere along the line, I started stopping at the convenience store every day for a can of Coke on my way to teach lessons. Again, under doctor's orders, that has stopped. I've taken to carrying a water bottle with me in the car. I'm not really thirsty, but you wouldn't believe how strong the impulse is to pull into the store every afternoon when I drive by.

I've got a friend who over the years developed a couple of very self-destructive habits. For a while, he managed to get them under control with a lot of hard work and support from those who care about him. Sadly, he's recently started slipping into his old ways. Other old habits like making excuses and justifying have surfaced to accompany the old ways. I pray that he realizes his support is still here, and he breaks those old habits for good.